The Importance of Vision

"Vision is a plan or a dream for the future." ~ Mark Harper

Do you have a vision or a dream for your family?

I am not talking about you picking in detail what your child will be or do when they grow up. I mean a vision or a dream in how they will present themselves, the type of character you hope to instill in them, etc.

We as parents have a part to play ~ a BIG part to play. We must think with the future in mind. EVERYTHING we do NOW matters and counts. It helps to shape and mold who our children will be when they grow up.

You see, we are the grown ups in the house. Children do not fully grasp what things will be like as they get older. They don't understand that if they are lazy, they will not be able to hold down a job, etc. That's why we are here to help our children with these tendencies.

I think what makes our job even harder is the fact that we are such imperfect beings as parents trying to help train a child. That is why it is super important to have time with the Lord so that He can breathe His very strength into us and help guide us in how we should train our children.

"Our vision must be a heavenly vision." ~ Mark Harper

Our vision for our family should not be for the glory of man. It should be for the glory of God. Our vision should not be just about us. Jesus was about other people and if we are going to have a heavenly vision that comes from God, then it must be about others.

"He must become greater, I must become less." John 3:30 (NIV)

I desire to see my children have a rock solid faith, an active relationship with Christ where they are gaining fresh revelation from His Word daily. I desire to see Christ be their all in al. I desire to see them treat others with respect and know that they are subject to being wrong. I want them to look out for the needs of others before their own. I want them to see a need and choose to do something about it and not just think or talk about it ~ do it. I want to see them decline the job promotion if God tells them no even if it would benefit their wallet. I want them to know God and make Him known. I'm not concerned about what particular job they choose to take if they are following what God has for them. I want them to know they are walking in obedience. They will then experience the joy and freedom that brings.

My challenge to you: What is the vision you have for your family? Have you and your spouse talked about it? What are you doing about it? Are you ACTIVELY working towards instilling your family values in your children? Is your vision a heavenly vision or for selfish gain? Write it down. Take one step at a time.

"Where there is no vision, the people perish." Proverbs 29:18

Perish means to destroy or ruin. We must have a vision and not just kind of feel our way through life when it comes to spiritual things. The world (Satan) has a plan and his plan is to do all he can to lead our children away from God. We have to be proactive, parents. There is no time like the present ~

if  not...

our children may be successful in the world's eye, but be in ruin when it comes to the spiritual. In our relationship with God it is through obedience to Him that we find TRUE joy and freedom.

 

Homeschool

I wanted to share with you a few things about our home school in case you were interested. I know that other blogs and talking to friends have helped us create what plan works for us in our home.

Our home school name: Kingdom Kids Academy                                                          We are in South Carolina and our accountability group is SCAIHS. We are required to pick a name for our home school. We chose this name because we desire to see our children  have a Kingdom mentality. We desire that all they put their mind to will be for the benefit of the Kingdom of God and for the glory of God.

Why do we home school?                                                                                                            We home school because we desire for our children to learn from a Biblical Worldview. We desire to have a tight family unit. We want to also have time to train them in their gifts and talents so that they are ready and able to minister for the Lord in any way He desires to use them. With these reasons in mind, we knew that public school nor Christian school were an option for our family.

Will we always home school?                                                                                                        I LOVE homeschooling our children. My husband LOVES that I home school our children. It is a great fit for our family, but I cannot say for sure. (this sounds like it sort of contradicts the last point, but bear with me). The reason I say that is because my greatest desire is to obey God with every aspect of my life. In order to do that I cannot write my own story. HE has to write it. I learned a long time ago to never say never, because sometimes those are the very things you end up doing. I said I would NEVER home school until about year and a half before my daughter was to start school.

Is homeschooling hard?                                                                                                           YES, it is hard. We have really great days and we have some pretty tough days. BUT what in life isn't this way? Everybody has great days and tough days. I would trade nothing in the world for the days that I have with my children. It is often hard because there is very little time for me to breathe between wife, mommy, home, home school duties (not to mention, I am a children's minster). But I am joyful because I am in the middle of God's will for my life. I wouldn't be happy doing anything else! He is the One who breathes His strength into me each and every day.

**You may not home school and you are reading this post today, I want to encourage you: home school may not be an option for your family for many reasons. That is ok. You have to do what you feel is right for your family. My biggest challenge to ALL families, homeschooling or not: have a plan. I know you are tired of hearing it, but with no plan you really do not go anywhere. How will you help lead your family to Jesus? How do you plan to help them grow up to be disciples of Christ.

"Where there is no vision, the people perish." Proverbs 29:18 (KJV)

~On Tuesday I will be talking a little more about vision.

 

 

 

Do you Have a Plan?

Today I want to challenge each family to have a plan of action.

• What is your plan of action that will help grow your family toward God?


• How will you be intentional about showing your children the way to Jesus?


• What will you do?


• What is the vision for your family?


• Where do you want to see your family spiritually in 1 year, 5 years, 20 years?

Think with the future in mind. The only way you can really be intentional is to have a plan. You need to lay some foundation stones in your home that will ensure that you and your family grow toward Jesus each day, one day at a time.

"The kingdom life at home is a life centered on a relationship with God, an awareness of his presence, and love in the smallest details of family." ~Sally Clarkson

"It's a way of life that is in celebration of who Christ is." ~Sally Clarkson

How do we plan to see our home centered on Christ?

We must have regular family devotions, prayer, set aside time for worship, we must serve together, etc. We have to be intentional about these things. The things we value are the very things our children will one day value. What will that be?

For me, I would rather it be the things of God ~ the things that are eternal.

Remember, there is no need to be overwhelmed with what you are or what you are not doing. Just start somewhere and God will meet you where you are. I will be sharing many more ideas as the blog grows.

Challenge: I would also like to challenge you as we are nearing Thanksgiving: if you do not do this on a regular basis, start now. It is NEVER too late. BUT start a gratitude journal. Each family member should participate and then on Thanksgiving Day read all the things your family has listed that they are thankful for. THEN, put them in a binder with dates on them so you can look back each year at all the things God has blessed you with. This is a good place to go back and be encouraged when life gets tough.